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1777 Revisited

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The world is looking for Christians. Let them know when any show up.

The year is 1777. It is late December. You are at a place called Valley Forge, Pennsylvania. You are in the Continental Army led by General George Washington during the American Revolutionary War. Looking over a barren plateau, a day’s march from Philadelphia, you only have a mental picture of what will soon become reality. You have to build your living quarters, mess hall, command center, and supply huts before you can occupy them. You’re cold. You’re tired. You are hungry and your clothes were nothing more than glorified rags. Still, having a spark of fighting spirit and determination, you muster all the strength you have and put yourself to the task of building your encampment knowing that just 18 miles to the southeast there lies the enemy. The city that was stolen by the British that must be taken back.

As far as the building project goes, the officers formed the men into construction squads and instructed them to build cabins according to a 14-foot by 16-foot model. The army placed the 2,000-odd huts in parallel lines, and according to one officer, the camp “had the appearance of a little city” when viewed from a distance. Most agreed that their log accommodations were “tolerably comfortable.”

Being a professional soldier in the Army took a lot of training as well. My career started with Basic Training at Fort Leonard Wood, MO, and progressed to Advanced Training at Fort Knox, KY. I was in a total of 8 years, and even after I graduated from my advanced training to be proficient in repairing tanks, I still had to train at my permanent duty station in Kirchgons, Germany. As we prepared for conflict in the Persian Gulf, we had to learn a little Arabic, enemy tactics and what he used as weapons, and we trained for desert fighting since most of us have never been in the desert. We were given playing cards with pictures of enemy vehicles on them so we could memorize them and recognize them when we saw one. Yes, terrain and tactics may change, but our training proved itself in victory 35 years ago when we liberated Kuwait.

One of the weaknesses of the Continental Army of 1777, as told to us by General George Washington himself, was that too many commands were heard during campaigns that confused the militia. It is said that many a battle may have been won had it not been for someone to randomly yell, “RETREAT,” and the men would scatter. Can you see how that would disorient the soldiers? Valley Forge would change all of that. A German by the name of Baron Heinrich Wilhelm von Steuben was put in charge of drills and marksmanship. His tactics are still in use in today’s military. He taught them how to march in ranks. How to turn and pinwheel and advance or retreat on command. Besides the sounding of “Charge” and “Retreat,” the military still uses bugle calls beginning early in the morning for waking up with ”First Call,” for the raising of the flag with the playing of “Reveille,” the morning and afternoon mess, the lowering of the flag with “Retreat” and “To the Colors,” and for lights out by the playing of “Taps.”

Why does the training never stop? The enemy is always changing his tactics, his frontal assaults, and the use of his arsenal. Discipline builds confidence. Knowing your equipment and how to use it is vital. The gas chamber helped us understand how a protective mask keeps out dangerous chemicals. We learned about military operations, but most importantly, we learned about ourselves. When our heads were spinning with questions, our confidence made possible through discipline and training, kept up moving forward.

As Christian soldiers, we have an arsenal as well—the Full Armor of God (Ephesians 6:13-18). The greatest offensive weapon ever entrusted to mankind is the Sword of the Spirit, or the Word of God. Added to that is the Shield of Faith that can deflect any projectile the enemy has to throw at us. Don’t let your guard down. We can’t let our shields to be shattered. King Ahab found out a weakness in his armor when a random arrow found its mark through a crack and took his life (1 Kings 22:34-36).

Proper use of God’s Word comes from training and practice. Training is staged at our church gatherings small groups. Just like listening to a coach, or a drill instructor, the application of what we learn during our training in practice can determine our success or failure in real life combat. We have to remember all the battle plans, trust in our authority, and how and where we have to go when an attack is launched against our position. When given orders, we have to know the Authority of the one who has charging us with those orders and when the trumpet blows at the order of the Commander, what to do. “For if the bugle produces an indistinct sound, who will prepare himself for battle?” (1 Corinthians 14:8).

Following God’s plans for the church and for families is very important to our success here on earth. When we memorize Scripture, or parts of it, we have embedded God’s word in us. I had two professors in seminary who challenged themselves with memorizing the entire New Testament. I personally knew these men: Dr. Lewis Foster, Dr. Wilke Winter, and a preacher friend named brother Ed Bousman. I know two of them succeeded. One of them was asked to speak in a country in which is was forbidden to be seen with a bible—Albania in the 1980’s. During that time, Christian leaders were being executed for their faith. Dr. Lewis Foster, who also helped translate Luke and Acts in the NIV, traveled to Albania and preached the bible from memory.

We may not always have a Bible near us. Sometimes we need an answer to a situation immediately. 1 Peter 3:15 says, “Always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is within you with gentleness and respect.” When we have the Word of God in our minds and on our hearts, we have God’s answer to the situation. This way, we will know what God would want us to do. The Bible says to hide the Word of God in our hearts so that we will not sin against God. Knowing the Bible allows us to follow Jesus and to be sensitive to His leading.

Psalm 119:9-16 is one of my favorite Scriptures from Psalms. Imagine us praying to God to know more of His ways than to learn how to avoid them.

The takeaway for today’s message, discipline and training made the difference in the Continental Army. It increased their confidence, courage, and proficiency, which gave them greater hope, faith, and victory.

A quote attributed to Baron von Steuben as he entered the emcampment at Valley Forge was, “I’m here to train soldiers. Let me know when any get here.” May it never be that someone should walk in among us and say, “I’m looking for faithful Christians. Can you please tell me where I can find some.” What does the Christian life look like? God gives us all we need to serve Him: mind, eyes, mouth, hands/arms, feet/legs. We’ve been using them wrongly for too long. Let go and let God show you how to use them rightly.

Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left His house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed. (Mark 1:35)

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The Path to Discipline

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“I’m here to train soldiers. Let me know when any get here?” (Attributed to Baron Friedrich Wilhelm von Steuben)

These are words that paraphrase the sense of humor of Baron Friedrich Wilhelm von Steuben when he entered the complex of Valley Forge in the winter of 1777 and found the Continental Army battered and demoralized. It did not resemble an army and the men had no likeness of being a soldier.

“I’m looking for Christians. Can you please tell me where I can find some?”

In our classrooms and churches, among the Body of Christ, where are those disciplined enough to take a stand against the enemy? I see more evidence of sympathizers of the enemy than soldiers of the cross. We are fraternizing with the wicked one and the evidence is in our tolerance, identification, and assimilation with the wickedness of the world. It is a symptom of a lack of training and being undisciplined.

To Baron von Steuben, training was of utmost importance. Training not only engages the enemy with confidence, it also instills confidence in those standing next to us in the ranks of many others who stand firm for the same cause.

In the wake of the battles of Brooklyn, the British taking Manhattan, and the surrender of Philadelphia, the Continental Army was reduced to a ragtag force of no cohesion and low morale. Along with these lows, dissertation was becoming more of a problem.

I happened to be fascinated by military history. The movement of ranks beginning with squad, to platoon, to company, to battalion, to brigade, to division, is a discipline of order.

In the Gulf War, my trucking company was one of only a few heavy transport companies that could carry loads of sizes up to and including the M1A1 Main Battle Tank (MBT). At the beginning of the conflict, Desert Shield, in January 1991, we were certain all troops were deployed along lines from which the coalition forces would launch an invasion into Iraq and Kuwait. Suddenly, orders came from VII Corps that the divisions that we delivered needed to be re-deployed. Everyone needed to flip-flop. All we knew is that it needed to happen NOW. Yes, we could question motives, but never strategy since we were not privileged to see the whole Theater of Operations. We did it and it became clear why it had to be done and the proof was in the victory.

Reflecting on the poem by Tennyson “The Charge of the Light Brigade,” and I paraphrase, “ours was not to reason why.” When it comes to deciding between morality and immorality, the Christian should have no other option but to flee immorality and impurity.

The Bible contains metaphors of athleticism (mostly from Paul) and the discipline needed for the individual to succeed in the ONE RACE. Note how I did not say TEAM. Physical discipline produces mental and psychological confidence. But a resolved acted on solely by our own strength will prove futile.

Rosie Ruiz. How many of you know her name? She crossed the finish of Boston Marathon as one of the fastest female runners of all time. It was discovered later that she never completed the race. She rode the subway until the very end of the race where she jumped out of the crowd and accepted the winning medal. After it was discovered that she cheated, the race committee tried to recover the medal but she never gave it up to her dying day. She never confessed to any wrongdoing. Her physique should have betrayed her, but despite that she entered the race without qualifying claiming she had brain cancer, so they gave her a medical exception. Her life was a lie. Here own efforts at success, brought her to defeat.

Personal ambition and conditioning in the spiritual realm is different. Spiritual self-discipline isn’t a pursuit that we simply force into habit; for if that were the case, there would be little need for the Holy Spirit in our lives. Physical habits work like that, like what we call “muscle memory.” Remember Galatians 5 then, self-control is a fruit of the Spirit.

We wouldn’t have it without the Spirit as it is His gifting and work in us. This realization begs the question then: How do we become more self-disciplined in our spiritual lives?

Consider what Jeff Iorg puts forth in his book The Character of Leadership, “No fleshly effort will please God or build true discipline. Self-discipline refers to self as the object of discipline rather than its source. Even though discipline is learned, and self is the object of the discipline, the motivation and power to develop discipline comes from the Spirit.” It’s in the daily surrender, the daily opportunity, the daily service, as Paul frequently refers to being “slaves” for Christ.

In order to become self disciplined, we need to stop trying to take on the Spirit’s role as the source of life-changing power and rely on the strength He will faithfully work IN us. By allowing the exercise of the Holy Spirit in us, we will gain a faith and confidence in our training that is the fruit of obedience and this will equip us for future victories, and eliminate failures.

Paul told Timothy to be strengthened by the Grace of Jesus (2 Timothy 2:1). If our motivation isn’t coming from the Holy Spirit, then we will continue in vain and fail in the practice of self-discipline. You know what I’m talking about. You’ve tried to kick a bad habit. You try, and try, in vain, and in all your physical ability, you fail. I’ve been there. Remember what I said, we are the object of the discipline, the motivation and power to develop discipline comes from the Holy Spirit. We can not be conformed into the likeness we want. He is the Potter and we are the clay. Like the old song, “Have Thine Own Way” says, “mold me and make me, after Thy will, while I am waiting, yielded, and still.”

The great early American preacher, Jonathan Edwards, when he was only 19 years old, made this declaration of personal resolve, as recorded in his Diary on Saturday, January 12, 1723.

“In the morning. I have this day, solemnly renewed my baptismal covenant and self-dedication, which I renewed, when I was taken into the communion of the church. I have been before God, and have given myself, all that I am and have, to God; so that I am not, in any respect, my own. I can challenge no right in this understanding, this will, these affections, which are in me. Neither have I any right to this body, or any of its members: no right to this tongue, these hands, these feet; no right to these senses, these eyes, these ears, this smell, or this taste. I have given myself clear away, and have not retained anything, as my own. I gave myself to God, in my baptism, and I have been this morning to him, and told him, that I gave myself wholly to him. I have given every power to him, so that for the future, I’ll challenge no right in myself, in no respect whatever. I have expressly promised him, and I do now promise Almighty God, that by his grace, I will not.”

Our motivation will be of an eternal scope when we press into the Holy Spirit, and He will give us the strength to “run with endurance the race that is set before us” (Hebrews 12:1).

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Execute Order “6-7”

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SO, do you think group mindedness and collective consciousness is the thing of Science Fiction? Think it could mean a Psy-Op infiltration into the minds of our youth? Maybe it’s not a mere conspiracy theory. May I present this theory for your “collective” approval.

Here is what Grok AI has produced when I inserted the words, “Psychology, Group Mindedness, Collective Consciousness, Symptoms of the Phrase ‘6-7’, Social Media” into the search engine.

The phrase “6-7” has been interpreted as a potential symptom of a collective consciousness phenomenon, particularly within the context of digital culture and generational shifts. Proponents suggest that the repetitive, seemingly nonsensical chanting of “six-seven” is not random but rather a form of synchronized collective focus that generates a shared energetic or symbolic field, known in occult circles as an egregore—a thought-form created by the concentrated attention of many individuals. This phenomenon is described as a modern manifestation of belief creating reality, where the repeated utterance of “6-7” functions as a ritualistic frequency that taps into a liminal space between the material and the transcendent.

The number 6 is symbolically linked to the physical, the mundane, and the structured—representing human labor, confinement, and the six directions of space. In contrast, the number 7 is associated with transcendence, the spiritual, and the breaking of patterns—such as the seven days of the week, seven chakras, and the seven seals in Revelation. The transition from 6 to 7 is thus interpreted as a symbolic threshold, representing a generational or existential shift from the material world to a higher state of awareness. This duality mirrors broader philosophical and psychological concepts, such as the Jungian idea of the collective unconscious, where shared archetypes and symbols emerge from the shared psyche of humanity.

The viral spread of “6-7” across platforms like TikTok and its depiction in media, such as the South Park episode where Cartman is physically repelled by the phrase, are seen as evidence of a deeper cultural or psychological resonance. The reaction of adults—mocking, banning, or dismissing the trend—is interpreted not as proof of its insignificance, but as confirmation of its power, since systems built on stability (6-energy) are threatened by forces that question, break, and transcend (7-energy). This aligns with the idea that collective consciousness can manifest through shared symbols, behaviors, and narratives that evolve beyond individual intent, forming a kind of emergent intelligence or shared reality.

While some view this phenomenon through a spiritual or occult lens, others interpret it through a more pragmatic or psychological framework, seeing it as a reflection of social norms, cultural conditioning, or even distributed cognition—the idea that societal structures and behaviors emerge from the collective interaction of individuals rather than a single, unified mind. In this sense, “6-7” may not be a literal signal from a higher consciousness, but a symptom of how shared attention and repetition can create powerful social effects, akin to the way memes or viral trends shape collective behavior.

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The Galilean Accent

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Take no fear in being recognized as a disciple of Christ

The Galilean Accent (adapted from a sermon first delivered by Ed Bousman, 1978)

TEXT: Matthew 26:73—“A little later, the bystanders came up and said to Peter, ‘Surely you too are one of them, for even the way you talk gives you away.’”

Peter is recognized as a Galilean by his accent, and as such was identified as a follower of Jesus. Three times he denied that he was a disciple and at least one of the times with a curse. He put on a great performance, because he evidently convinced the enemies of Jesus that he didn’t even know him. They probably thought: no friend of Jesus would talk like this.

May it be that we develop a Galilean accent and that people will identify us as followers of the Nazarene. I am not talking about mere appearance. There’s enough CINOs out there now—Christians in Name Only. When Scripture says that narrow is the way and few that find the Kingdom of God, I think that many are in for a rude awakening on Judgment Day. I travel frequently and meet a lot of people. I come across many people with crosses and fish on their cars quite frequently. It might lend one to have the opinion that there are a lot of people of faith on the highways and byways of life and it’s tempting to believe that the narrow road that Scripture talks about may be wider than I first imagined. I have friends who have had crosses and fish tattooed on their bodies as if to say that if if anything recognizable be found on their bodies, it would be the last visible sign their mortician would see at their death. Again, it might lead many to believe that the world is full of faithful Christians. This, however, might be a false hope.

We are called to be “imitators of God as beloved children” (Eph. 5:1), not advertisers. The modern term is “Posers.” Advertisers are slogans, jingles, images, and sales pitches. There are a lot of churches involved in the business of advertising, but not delivering. People who are imitators often develop a routine exactly after the pattern of the person whose character they represent. When I was young, I used to imitate my father. I saw in him all the qualities I admired as a man and I adopted his habits to try to make them routine in me. Let us in our speech and attitude try to imitate the habits and the language of the writers of the New Testament so that those who hear us will also say like the servant girl did, “This man also was with Jesus the Nazarene.”

Let me try my Galilean accent. Let’s see if I can talk like the apostle Peter. The speech of a Galilean distinguished him from the Jews in Jerusalem and Judah, particularly because of their difficulty in enunciating the gutterals which are important in the Hebrew and Aramaic. Someone has said that the Galilean accent was rather obnoxious to people who were not used to it and it may be that you will find my speech a little obnoxious, but if so it is because I, too, have a Galilean accent. Let’s try the Galilean accent on Peter’s words:

Acts 2:38

“Repent, and each of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”

Did I get it right? Some would say, you got it right and it surely was obnoxious. The reason it sounds obnoxious is because I have a Galilean accent. You see, Peter did not say that salvation came before baptism. He said it comes at a time when the person is baptized and at the same time that he is baptized he receives the forgiveness of sin and the gift of the Holy Spirit. The verses that say, “You shall not murder,” or “You shall not commit adultery” are not any more difficult to understand. Acts 22:16: “And now, why do you wait? Arise and be baptized and wash away your sins, calling on the name of the Lord.” You see, “calling on His name” is the prophetic appeal by Joel for those prompted to receive God’s salvation (Joel 2:32). Those who are saved first call and then the ones who “call” commit to the conditions of the covenant to be saved. God could not have made it any more plainer. Human language could not be more specific. Yet to some this is an obnoxious teaching. I am not going to deny it with a curse, I am going to affirm it with an AMEN.

Now let’s try the Galilean accent on . . .

Acts 4:12

“And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved.”

Did I get it right? Some would say yes, you got it right and it surely does sound obnoxious. Well, the reason it sounds obnoxious is because I have a Galilean accent. According to this verse there is no salvation apart from Jesus Christ. Now this includes all non-Christian religions. Without Christ, there is no hope. Without a redeemer, there is no redemption. Heaven belongs to Jesus and if you want to go there, you will have to do things His way or not at all. Jesus himself has said (John 14:6), “No one comes to the Father but through me.” Is this intolerant? God has always made the basis of His covenant conditional on His requirements. The conditions for the New Covenant are calling on His name in faith, repentance, confession and baptism. Jesus says in Mark 16, “He who believes and is baptized shall be saved.” Even in the Old Testament, in Psalm 147:19, 20, we see how God’s Word and ordinances and statutes were for His covenant people and these were not known by other nations. It is by his Word, Psalm 147 says, that all things are sustained and only through his Word that all things are, in the words of Milton, re-gained. In Milton’s poem, “Paradise Regained” who else but Christ was sent forth:

Winning by conquest what the first man lost 
By fallacy surprised. But first I mean 
To exercise him in the Wilderness; 
There he shall first lay down the rudiments 
Of his great warfare, ere I send him forth 
To conquer Sin and Death, the two grand foes. 

The Son of God, with Godlike force endued 
Against the attempter of thy Father’s throne 
And thief of Paradise! Him long of old 
Thou didst rebel, and down from Heaven cast 
With all his army; now thou hast avenged 
Supplanted Adam, and, by vanquishing 
Temptation, hast regained lost Paradise, 
And frustrated the conquest fraudulent. 

No, there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved. God is not going to ask by what religion or by what law we choose to be judged. He will judge you whether you like it or not. But not only does this verse put out the light of hope for non-Christian religions, it is also for those who reject the Bible WAY whereby a person gets into Christ. It certainly does not make us feel good to think that they are going to hell, but it ought to do something for our zeal in reaching the lost. It’s time to stop beating around the bush under the guise of political correctness and tell it like it is. Remember, you have a God to answer to on that great day and He is going to make an accounting of your words.

Perhaps some would say, that is the most obnoxious teaching I ever heard! The reason it is obnoxious is because I have a Galilean accent and I am not going to deny it with a curse, I am going to affirm it with an AMEN!

Now let’s try the Galilean accent on:

2 Peter 1:20, 21

“But know this first of all, that no prophecy of Scripture is a matter of one’s own interpretation, for no prophecy was ever made by an act of human will, but men moved by the Holy Spirit spoke from God.”

Did I get it right? Some would say, “Yes, you got it right and it surely was obnoxious.” The reason it sounds obnoxious is because I have a Galilean accent.

Now, here is the way it is. No scripture is of private interpretation. This indicates that no denomination can formulate a doctrine for any individual. No church can tell you, this is what you must believe or you are not a Christian. The Bible says in Acts that the Berean Church, “Searched the scriptures daily whether these things (Paul and Silas said) were so.” If they checked on the Apostle Paul, how much more should preachers and priests and pastors be checked on today. It is not what your preacher says nor what your denomination believes. It is WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY. Don’t take my word for the contents of Acts 2:38, read it for yourself and see. Don’t take my word for teaching that divorce and remarriage is a sin, turn to Mark 10:11-12 and Romans 7:2-3 and see for yourself. After reading for yourself, you can admit as the Samaritans did in John 4—they believed, not because of the testimony of the woman at the well, but because of the living WORD.

I know that to some this may be obnoxious teaching, but I am not going to deny it with a curse, I am going to affirm it with an AMEN!

Now let’s try the Galilean accent on:

2 Peter 2:20

“For if, after they have escaped the defilements of the world by the knowledge of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, they are again entangled in them and are overcome, the last state has become worse for them than the first.”

Did I get it right? Some would say, “Yes, you got it right and it surely was obnoxious.” the reason it sounds obnoxious is because I have a Galilean accent.

A person can be lost after he has once been saved. Don’t let some preacher juggle scripture and tell you anything to the contrary. Once in grace, always in grace is Baptist doctrine. Church of Christ people would never admit that they believe it, but they surely do practice it. Once a person is baptized, to most people that’s all there is to it—he’s home free.

There exists a question that is asked by many that we’ve probably had: “What would be easier: to die for the cause of Christ or truly live for Him?” Honestly, and a preacher friend of mine who must be in his 90’s now, Knofel Staton, used to use this illustration: The best thing that could have happened to some people was for them to drown in the baptistry. It would have been better if at their baptism the preacher said while holding them under the water, “I . . . baptize you . . . in the name . . . of the Father . . . and God the Son . . . and God the Holy Spirit . . . If ever there was a justified mercy killing, it would be at baptism. The crown of victory is not easily won. But to some, as long as their name is in the roll book of the church, they’re eternally secured. As a minister, you never know the extent of a church’s membership until you get calls to do funerals for people you have never met who are supposedly members. I remember sitting down with a widow trying to get information on her departed husband who was a “member” of the church but had not attended in 14 years. During the interview I was trying to find some redeeming quality that I could use in my eulogy, but it was the wife who stated bluntly to me, “Preacher, don’t work too hard to make my husband sound good. My husband died and went to hell.”

We need to face up to the fact that hell will be full of church members whose eyes on earth sparkled with dreams of glory.

To some this is a very obnoxious saying, but I am not going to deny it with a curse, I am going to affirm it with an AMEN!

Now let’s try the Galilean accent on:

Acts 11:15

“And as I began to speak, the Holy Spirit fell upon them just as he did upon us at the beginning.”

Did I get it right? Some would say, “Yes, you got it right, but it surely is obnoxious.” The reason it sounds obnoxious is because I have a Galilean accent.

In Acts, the previous chapter, Peter had been amazed when the household of Cornelius had received the baptism of the Holy Spirit. Peter’s amazement was more than the fact that they were Gentiles, because here it says it happened even as in the beginning. Peter seems to say, “I haven’t seen anything like this in at least seven years.” The baptism of the Holy Spirit took place only on the Apostles at Pentecost and on the household of Cornelius, who is described as “a centurion, a righteous and God-fearing man well spoken of by the entire nation of the Jews” (Acts 10:22). All of the 3000 on the day of Pentecost received the gift of the Holy Spirit but this in no way indicates they all could speak in tongues or work miracles. Paul would say to the Corinthians, “Are all apostles?” The obvious answer is NO. Are all prophets? NO. Are all workers of miracles? NO. Do all speak in tongues? The obvious answer is, NO. All Christians had the gift of the Holy Spirit as promised on the day of Pentecost but this in no way means they all had the miraculous gifts of the apostles.

This may seem very obnoxious to some, but I am not going to deny it with a curse, I am gong to affirm it with an AMEN!

Now let’s try the Galilean accent on:

1 Peter 4:16

“but if anyone of you suffers as a Christian, he is not to be ashamed, but is to glorify God in this name.”

We’ve all been asked the question, “What denomination do you belong to?” I always tell them I belong to no denomination at all. I am a CHRISTIAN. I am nothing MORE than a Christian and want to be named nothing less. I don’t need any other name with it, before it, over it, behind it, or in place of it to identify me as a follower of Jesus Christ. When I say I AM A CHRISTIAN, that says it all. The name of Christ is big enough and powerful enough and important enough to stand up all by itself. I need no other and I want no other and I will accept none other.

This of course to some is a very obnoxious teaching, but I am not going to deny it with a curse, I am going to affirm it with an AMEN!

I could go on and on, but for the sake of time, I think the point has been made. I appeal to you, the church, that in these last days, as Paul counseled Timothy in 2 Timothy 3:1-7:

But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come.

For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy,

unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good,

treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,

holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these.

For among them are those who enter into households and captivate weak women weighed down with sins, led on by various impulses,

always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

Our mission should imitate the Great Commission given by Christ in Matthew 28:19-20:

“Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

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Habits of Holiness

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Habits of Holiness

Not a trite phrase to be written off as strictly cliché, but a very urgent sense of responsibility each of us should possess.

What is a habit? A habit can be good or bad. Habits can become so routine that we do them without thinking—both good and bad ones. Habits are a pattern of behavior acquired through repetition.

What do we do to make sure we have a good visit to the dentist’s office? Be in the habit of teeth brushing as part of our daily routine. How can we assure ourselves a better chance of overcoming temptations when they come before us? Be in the habit of reading God’s Word and following His commands.

Some of us have our favorite sports figures perhaps. We might have a person who to us is the pinnacle of success. Did you ever wonder how they got to be so successful? Through the habit of practicing or working many hours a day to be more proficient and more competitive. They developed a talent that sets them apart from others.

Habits are built into our lifestyle. We exit a room, we turn off the lights. We buckle up our seat belts upon entering a vehicle without even thinking about it.

I have had a multitude of occupations during my life. I have been a mechanic and a truck driver. I remember how as a driver, I trained so much that every time I got into a vehicle to drive it, a check list was automatically completed without giving it any thought. Whenever I was on call, I knew by reflex what needed needed to happen, what needed to be packed, and what each team member had to do.

Did you ever think about how much money is spent analyzing our buying habits? Our eating and drinking habits? Our personal hygiene habits? Our driving habits? Even our recreational and worship habits? It’s called “market analyzing.” People are paid to research buying habits. They look at packaging and merchandising and how things are sold. Some employers study work habits to improve your efficiency. I have heard that delivery companies count the steps of employees to determine if their movement can be more efficient and save less time handling packages.

When a company wants to move into a town to start a production business, it analyzes the population to determine the hiring pool, aptitude, demographics, and economy of the area to be sure there will be a good return on their investment. If there is no future for the company because of the area being a poor investment, the company not only misses out, but the future prosperity of the community loses out. So it is with any who have poor habits. Habits of poverty exists among people as displayed in their work and school productivity. Many settle for the least.

Now, Christian, don’t think the Devil isn’t into knowing our habits because he IS. He doesn’t want us to see our full potential, but rather maintain habits in keeping with laziness, greed, and pride. We haven’t been paying attention to our market strategy in distributing the Word of God. Can we “sell” others on the benefit of God’s salvation? In word or deed?

Now, let’s talk about TIME MANAGEMENT. How much time do we waste in the exercise of poor habits? What benefit could be gained by exercising good habits? What health benefits would be gained in exercising healthy habits, like getting to bed early enough to get 7-8 hours of sleep and waking up with enough time to be fully prepared for the opportunities of a new day? Wouldn’t that lower our anxiety? This change might take the elimination of trivial activities.

In my life, I’ve learned that changing habits involves substitute, sharpen, sustain, and success. It takes some time, but given that strategy, you’ll find success. Bad habits, like walking away from a mess you made on the floor. Substitute that by keeping things tidy to prevent accidents and things being lost. The sharpening of a new habit can make it efficient. Cleaning as you go saves from cleaning a bigger mess at the end of the week. The sustaining of a good habit ensures success by making the area safe and your items accounted for and cleaned.

I was thinking of something the other day and brought this up to my wife Julie. What if we focused more on the habits of success and less on the goals of success. In my own life, I’ve tried to set goals that time after time I failed to achieve. It’s hard to set a goal and make it SMART—specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and timely. It’s hard to map out something like that with directions on finding the best way to the end. Finding the END usually involves overcoming the obstacles of your weaknesses. It is my feeling that if we build the habits FOR success, the obstacles preventing us from reaching our goals will be naturally eliminated.

A city in Kufa, Iraq, was the scene of mob violence for months. An observer was called in to analyze the pattern of behavior. After watching videos of each violent occurrence, he noticed a pattern. People would fill the square around a certain mosque and when the crowds began to swell, shwarma and kebab vendors would come, hoping to capitalize on the crowds by selling kebabs and shwarmas. By late afternoon, someone would enevitably throw a rock, or other item at police, and the angry mob turned violent.

The observer then made an odd request: going forward, don’t allow food vendors into the square. SO, the police decided to deny the protesters their food. Sure enough, the next day, crowds began to build in the square outside the mosque, loud protests against the police were heard, angry slogans rang out and soon the crowds were restless, AND hungry. Looking for food and finding no vendors who were selling it, the crowds dispersed. Just a change of habit.

So much of our lives is based on habits. We might find it in our habit to frequent the company of a particular group of friends. Among that group of friends we might find the temptation to be in the habit of doing something bad. Not all of our friends care about our best interests. It doesn’t mean that we are going to contribute to mob violence, but the consequences can be the same.

I remember a time in the city of Irbid, Jordan, when a group of men were running through the market area. It looked like something major was happening so I went out into the street to see what the all the commotion was. Pulling the young man towards me, I asked him to slow down, “Shway, shway.” And then I asked, “Shoo hartha, shoo hartha?” “Madha yahduth?” which means, what’s happening? The young man paused and thought for a second and said, “I don’t know. I saw everybody running and so I started running.” We can be pulled into a situation with little to no knowledge of what is going on by the habit of blind compliance.

I don’t know about you, but I’m tired of the distractions that take me away from what is truly worth our time. I used to have some really bad habits. There was a time when first and last thing I did every day is smoke a cigarette. Presently, I’m trying to force myself from looking at my phone the first thing every morning and before bed because it is taking me away from time with my family and time with God. The Devil wants only to distract us from these important things. In fact, we sin when we are in the wrong place at weak time. Imagine if people we love who are on their phones or computers constantly would turn off the power of such devices and plug into us? It would be wonderful! Imagine what God would think if we were to unplug ourselves from the world to focus on His Word? That would be exceedingly wonderful!

1) Jesus was in the habit of prayer. We know this from the references in the Bible that says He was in the habit of prayer. From his youth to adult, he often retreated to a quiet place to pray.

2) Jesus was in the habit of being in the Lord’s house on the Lord’s day. Not much is known about Jesus as a young man, but the verses we do have in Scripture mention Jesus being in the Temple on the Sabbath (Luke chapter 2:42ff). Verse 49 says the Jesus had to be in His Father’s house. Later in Luke 4:16, while in Nazareth, Jesus was in the synagogue on the Sabbath, “as was His custom.”

3) He was in the habit of obedience. John 6:38 says that Jesus came from heaven not to do His own will, but the will of the Father’s. Looking again at Luke chapter 2, verse 51 it says Jesus was in the habit of being obedient to His parents. Of course that was right after his family had discovered he was left behind finding him in the Temple. Jesus further said, “If you love me you will keep my commandments.” We are not to follow the pattern, or habits, of the world.

4) Jesus was in the habit of loving others. Many times we are told that Jesus was moved with compassion. When little children visited Jesus, the disciples were of the habit of turning them away. When Martha was in the habit of hospitality, Jesus needed to commend Mary for doing something that wasn’t routinely done and was the feet of Jesus and dry them with her hair. Peter was in the habit of sitting at the head of the table and Paul gently corrected his behavior.

These simple habits of Jesus led to opportunity. Opportunity acted upon leads to God’s work being fulfilled. Isn’t that a fine goal to have without setting a goal, but having the habits that get you to the finish?

Try adopting this habit: when someone asked you to help them with something, be in the habit of saying, “Yes, I’d be happy to help you.” When considering going to church, it should be our habit to do so. And lets make prayer NOT a last resort or a reactive occurrence, but a frequent practice so that our minds might be focused always on the will of God in our lives and His sovereignty and grace. If we try these habits of holiness, our lives will conform more to the likeness of Christ. And THAT is our supreme goal and most honoring to God.

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Old Versus New

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Love letter from God- A vow unbroken

Once upon a time, God created the earth, around which He wrapped the universe as a blanket. On the earth He created a Garden in which He placed a companion, the Ish. He created the Ish from the earth and when God breathed life into his nostrils the spirit of life, he became a living soul and it was good—for a time.

It was soon discovered that the Ish himself needed a companion and from the Ish God formed Ishah, because she was taken OUT of the Ish– man AND woman. God considered what He had done and He and man were satisfied—for a time.

The separation began when both man and woman were tempted to break fellowship with the God Who gave them life and all good things. Under the temptation of a lesser creature, they began to esteem themselves more than their Creator and God knew that His love for them would be the only means to bring humankind back to Himself.

God tried to the uttermost to intercede as best He could. Things got so bad that man was only doing evil, continually. After finding only eight righteous who were saved through the water, God called down a great flood decimating the progeny of humanity and the wickedness that if allowed to remain would have kindled a wrath so great that the hope of men would have been utterly snuffed out.

It wasn’t too long after that, even after God left tokens of His esteem in the rainbow, in stones, and by His word, that humanity turned towards itself again. Assembling on the Plains of Babel, they erected a tower to proclaim their greatness. Men began to esteem themselves better than their Creator Who not only gave them life but preserved them through calamity.

The Creator went to greater lengths to secure a long life for man and to bless him. Man’s destruction would be certain if left to doing that which was right in his own eyes and he would have little chance to know the God who loves him. God attempted to prove Himself through the covenants of blood that were cut between Him and those who would agree to His terms. Yes, the consequences were grave, but the conditions not only represented the gravity of sin’s effects on man but also the capacity of God to love him.

Still, God’s love expanded to greater horizons as mankind began to esteem himself better than the one who gave him life by breathing into his nostrils the spirit of life. God in an almost last attempt would call a people unto himself; a people whom He loved, desiring only to be esteemed as their Creator and esteem themselves as His creation. His Word was sealed through miracles, blessings, and curses. God would be betrothed to His people, promising them that He would be faithful for life. He brought heroes, healers, prophets, and kings. To demonstrate His power, the Creator showed that He Himself was greater than any power on earth, any graven image, or any strength in men. Yet still, God’s betrothed was an unfaithful and adulterous bride. Man esteemed himself greater than the One who gave him life.

Any other husband whose wife played the harlot would have cast her off. Not God—He loved her. This kind of covenant could not last. The bride was making a mockery of the NAME her Husband gave her. To preserve His holy name and a remnant to carry it forward, He came to terms with the unthinkable. It was the only means a marriage could be dissolved. One party had to die. The blood of man was not worthy to satisfy such a significant role. It had to be God himself. The ritual of shedding the blood of animals ceased. Only the Word of God, Who created the heavens and the earth and all the dwell in them, could be the Testator to die and bring about a New Covenant in His blood (to be cont’d)

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The Past and the Danger of Relapse

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Relapsing suppressed memories is not a tactic that should be encouraged. Relapse brings with it bad connotations when it comes to any addiction. The mind naturally forms a barrier between that which was/is destructive and that which would promote its adaptation, health, and well being. By encouraging a resurgence of an experience that the mind has suppressed, it encourages what was once a bad experience into twice the worse experience. Who’s to say the original experience was interpreted correctly by our limited understanding or viewpoint. For instance, we may interpret our past by context of the present, we may not appreciate the context in which it was set. Today, it could be said that I lived in poverty and being poor when I was little has made me feel more entitled and accuse my parents of neglect. Depression and anxiety are the usual result of looking back at what we’ve plowed with regret and remorse.

When I travel in the Middle East, those who know me as a Christian can either judge me on my present disposition or judge me as a member of religious fanatics responsible for the Crusades. On the occasion someone finds out I am a Gulf War veteran, they can conclude that I am not a person who is anti-Muslim, or that I am a person whose past is removed from him and respectful of all Muslims and sympathetic toward their culture. I would expect anybody to judge me on what I am presently and not on the basis of anything in the past.

The past is best left out of the present and future. Grappling with it can lead to the greatest depression if not resolved properly. Those who meditate in the way of Eastern mysticism and believe in reincarnation MUST force themselves to try to rectify their past with their present condition for future benefit. It is a constant state of guilt, contrition, and agonizingly brutal debasement in their attempts to make them worthy of an elevated afterlife. Some Christians I know have so far removed themselves from the present by delving into their past, they feel they have to work through a strict system of laws to atone for the sins they feel has made them unworthy of salvation. On the other side, some Christians continue living in unrepentant sin, hurting others around them, feeling God will forgive, yet they are guilty of transgressions they will never resolve without the proper repentance. I know you know the kinds of people of whom I speak—they are hypocrites.

You see, plastering over our past is our mind’s best defense and shield that naturally occurs when we have been hurt. It is like a defensive wall where isolation from the effects of the trauma can be allowed to die. Taking the wall down is like opening up a window for light to come in and after being attended to our pain can resurface and what was dead can be allowed to grow. From there, the greater effects of the pain which is translated sometimes wrongfully into the present enters our lives and the lives of others and we feel worse.

The greatest result of counseling is to bring peace, yet most counselors bring conflict and isolation to the wrong areas of our lives separating us from where true peace can be found. True peace is found in forgiveness. It is found in acceptance. It is found in overcoming. The greatest threat to depression is to feel no regret for the past, be resolved with the present, and live the future as if it were present—meaning I live by the virtues of love. This is what we together have said about love. Love keeps no records of wrongs. It thinks the best, does the best, and has the best interest and high good in mind for the other. That way, in the future we have less of a chance of being condemned by guilt.

In the VA, there is no end to diagnoses of mental illness, most prevalent is PTSD. I have chosen to suppress the images that I retain in my mind as a result of what I witnessed during the Gulf War. I only consider that a vital and meaningful part of my life. It was a part of my life that to me was a different life. Some today live in the guilt of their past, mostly encouraged by others who recommend or set expectations that they “feel” a certain way and before long they believe it. The symptoms of depression are easily applied to them and through very little convincing evidence, a person can believe they are doomed to a condition from their past that they should have no business believing.

Why can’t we just cut off the past and after severing the root allow it to die? Well, it’s because we struggle with guilt and we struggle with unresolved accusations against us created by what we feel are from others and most damagingly—ourselves. Our character today—this day—should not be manipulated by the events of the past.

In the Bible, there is a parable about cleaning one’s house. It has to do with how we clean our minds and hearts. Sometimes when we clean out what we feel is unclean, we can open ourselves up to a worse fate. Temptation to sin acts the same way—it wipes away the guilt of our past by thinking a future act will be satisfying and in our fantasy overlook the pain of the past and open ourselves up to sin of a greater magnitude. The more we do that, the less we feel remorse and the less we feel remorse, the farther we are from true healing.

When the unclean spirit has gone out of a man, he roams through waterless places in search of rest; and finding none, he says, “I will return to my house which I left.” And when he has come to it, he finds the place swept and clean. Then he goes and takes seven other spirits more evil than himself, and they enter in and dwell there; and the last state of that man becomes worse that the first (Lk 11:24-25).

Care must be taken that we do not give an opportunity for greater damage to ourselves and others when a right end resulting in love, forgiveness, and peace are not the end game.

Another parable in the Bible has to do with a strong man guarding his house.

When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own house, his possessions are undisturbed. But when someone stronger than he attacks him and overpowers him, he takes away from him all his armor on which he had relied and distributes his plunder. (Luke 11:21, 22)

When the strong man’s armor is reduced, the affects of the stronger man to overtake him are greater.

I hope this makes a bit of sense. Your past is part of the canvas of your life’s portrait. Understanding how painting works, it is the darker background that brings out the brightness of a foreground and brighter your life will be by not mingling the dark with your brilliant radiance.

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The Condition of Grace

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If you think salvation is unconditional then the conditions demanded of Christ to bring salvation will never apply to you. It was not by the grace of God that Christ suffered and was put to death. It is therefore not the grace of God to allow disobedience and faithlessness among those called the children of God. Those who encountered Jesus during his life’s ministry were faced with two choices; 1) deny themselves and follow him, or 2) deny him and follow themselves.